6 tips on how to make transformation your way of life
In ‘Corona times’ the theme of coaching is receiving a lot of boosted interest. People are in need of support for managing the many changes that hit them without warning.
So what happens now as the first levels of restrictions are being lifted and the temptation to fall straight back into the “old normal” is high?
It would be a real missed opportunity if you do that. Many of you had – next to the fear and stress management – also amazing transformational moments and elevated states of being peaceful, light and expanded.
This reminds me of our graduates sharing that they “fly”, they experience more energy, courage, positivity, expansion, power, clarity, purpose and love after having attended a Creative Consciousness® training. And then, after a week or so life goes back to the “old normal.”
Consider which parts of normal are worth rushing back to.Why does it seem as if transformation isn’t everlasting?
Let me share with you what I see is going on there.
I believe you can make powerful choices that allow your transformation to last and expand and eventually become a way of life. When you are in the state of transformation you are in a different matrix, your mind and your brain is operating a different set of language.
See, when you are participating in our trainings or retreats you are exposing yourself to different thoughts, different perspectives, different ways of “language-ing” the world, your inner and the outer world.
What you experience is a direct result of the language you run inside your mind. Good language good experience, bad language bad experience.
Learn the language of creationThe Common Standard Matrix (CSM) or your reality is a massive network of language into which you wake up every morning. This matrix isn’t composed of a language that leaves a human being happy, expanded, connected and powerful.
So when you spend 4 or more days in a different matrix (I’m talking about our Conscious Living 1 training, a Soul Retreat or any other program of the CC Journey) your mind and brain change according to the language these programs are created of and facilitated.
When you are back in the Common Standard Matrix (CSM) you come back with a different mindset and a different brain. Now your transformed inner world meets the common standard World. You are a fish back in the ocean of the standard reality.
So, how can you keep your mind and brain transformed and make transformation last?
The answer is simple. You would need to equip yourself.
If you do nothing, your mind and brain will be re-polluted by the soup of the language of the Common Standard Matrix. An experience always is a result of what’s true for your mind and brain.
Understanding the above empowers you to make a choice; a choice to not allow the CSM to swallow you again.
Who do you choose to be?I wish we’d live in a transformed CSM. Nobody would need to roll up sleeves and seriously get to work protecting the inner world and keeping the new matrix alive. But we don’t live in that world. Not yet. And most likely not tomorrow. Maybe one day! Accepting these facts is the first step into your maturity.
So the question is, do you choose to drop your naïve hopes and beliefs that miraculously you can enjoy transformation without any more serious work from your side?
If yes, then consider this:
6 Tips on how to to make your transformation last by keeping your new inner world clean and unaffected
- The future is now.
One of the most effective guardians of your mindset and brain condition is the commitments you live into; meaning: when you promise yourself something and demonstrate integrity by signing up for it, your brain accepts that future reality (what you promised to do) as a given in the now. If you just wish or intend or consider, your brain doesn’t do anything, because for the brain it is only real what is real for you. As long as you don’t commit it’s not real. Commitment is the power that creates reality, first within and then without. Get yourself a great coach who can hold you accountable.
- Make choices that are in alignment with your transformed mind and brain.
There are red flags, warning lights that go on, but you’d need to have the ability and sensitivity to recognize them. For example when the energy in your body contracts or expands, how the structure of your body water crystals feels (NB: your body consists of 80% water), or how other sensors tell you ‘yay or nay’ concerning all the choices you have to make day by day.
Going into our transformational trainings or retreats and afterwards making the same choices as before puts you back to where you were. To resist this simple logical fact only brings back your familiar suffering. Like it or not, that’s how it is.
- Practice!
Grow your muscles of transformation. Get a bit stronger every day. In Creative Consciousness®, we give you many practices you can do every day. As you brush your teeth and take a shower so engage in practices that make your transformation a permanent reality. A Consciousness Coachâ can reinforce and remind you of the vast array of CC tools.
- Clean out your backyard.
What you have conscious access to is about 10% of your psychology, the rest is under the surface of your awareness. You need to engage in environments and processes that are healing your childhood wounds, that are completing the inauthentic actions that caused harm to you and others, that de-armour your heart and that kick you out of your nest (comfort zones) so that you can experience that you have wings and that you can fly.
- Open your eyes!
This means to study, learn and integrate what reality is, who you really are and how that what we call “life” really works. You have to enlighten yourself if you desire transformation to be your daily life experience. Remember, no angel is applauding your heroism in enduring and surviving in the CSM.
- Keep your ego at bay.
The ego is the only reason why the CSM can get the better of you, time and again. The ego is your identification as you experience yourself on a normal day-to-day basis. You cannot win against your ego. You only can steel yourself away.
How strong your ego is (and therefore your bondage to the CSM) is a matter of how good of a student you are. If you can be a master student you will grow beyond your ego very fast. It also depends on the quality of teacher you have chosen. To have no teacher and tell yourself that you are a student of life is a sweet story, however self-delusion. You are kidding yourself. The real teacher is a stance outside of your ego and therefore a power that actually can help you. By the quality of your teacher and your quality of being a student, your journey is unfolding.
You can have it. I promise. It can’t be given to you, only offered. You need to take it. It was, is and always will be entirely up to you. You have no choice regarding your awakening. When you don’t listen to the words of the teacher life will teach you in any way possible (in other words: suffering). Growing you must. The one choice you have is growing through suffering or cooperation.
The good news: you are not alone. Many of us are on THE JOURNEY. Many of us have woken up and accepted what is. And the more of us convert from suffering to cooperation the easier and lighter THE JOURNEY becomes.
Consciousness Coaching® is best equipped to support people in “coming out of Corona” and keep the learnings alive, embed them into their lives, consolidate the expansion and step into a higher next version of themselves.
I am excited that Creative Consciousness® used the last 4 weeks to make our Creative Consciousness Coach® Training program fully available ONLINE.
It’s a perfect opportunity to stretch yourself into your potential to become a source of transformation and empowerment.
With love, ❤Marc
Email contact@creativeconsciousness.com for more details on our ONLINE ICF ACTP accredited Consciousness Coaching® training. NewConsciousness Coach® Training module starting 7-10 May 2020.